When you are in a bad situation and you are frustrated and furious.. you know this first thing come to your mind "Decisions" i.e: I will do....., I will make them suffer....etc.
That's what i call rush decisions it come out of sadness and feeling you wanna punish what other did to you and do the same to them... but after awhile you will discover you are just punishing yourself.
Maybe years ago i used to believe that rush decisions are the best ones but i think i was wrong.. i learned that when i'm thinking about rush decisions it's like an alarm for not taking any action till the wise one come.. coz rush one will have its bad effects which are losing people close to you, losing your self esteem, ....etc.
And as our prophet (PBUH) told his partners 3 times "لا تغضب" , that we should be calm not to get furious that easy to make the wrong decisions and go for it losing a lot of things then regret.. we all do that a lot but it's really time "2ala na3'dab" :) .
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