Monday, February 1, 2010

Who Loves You?




Isn't it an important thing to know the one who really loves you? ..

I heard someone who defined Real Friendship and I was shocked that I never thought about this issue like that.

"صاحبك اللى يخاف على اخرتك "

I found out that friendship isn't about being together on this world happy and that's it, but also to protect each other to make sure we will reach Janna Together... Isn't this is Friends 4 ever :) that wasn't fancy words, they are Real..

These are Some Tips for Friends for Sake of Allah :)

1. Don't Accept that your friendships end when you die.. build a relation that part of it is here and the other part of it on Ferdos.

سبعة يظلهم الله في ظله يوم لا ظل إلا ظله ...... ورجلان تحابا في الله اجتمعا عليه وتفرقا عليه ....... رواه البخاري1423 ومسلم

2. Make sure that this friendship is making you both better, and don't forget to make Do3a2 for each other to be gathered on Ferdos.

3. Remind each other with Allah and Prophet Muhammad, it's really nice when you mention Allah on your conversation with your friends because both of you feel your soul is getting higher.

يقول الله تعالى : أنا عند ظن عبدي بي ، وأنا معه إذا ذكرني ، فإن ذكرني في نفسه ذكرته في نفسي ، وإن ذكرني في ملأ ذكرته في ملأ خير منهم ، وإن تقرب إلي شبرا تقربت إليه ذراعا ، وإن تقرب إلي ذراعا تقربت إليه باعا ، وإن أتاني يمشي أتيته هرولة


4. Make an advice if you saw ur friend doing something wrong, as long as you are saying it decently no shame on that.

قال عمر بن الخطاب رضي الله عنه (رحم الله امرءاً أهدى إلي عيوبي )

5. Of course a friendship like that will face alot of challenges because Shaytan won't let you both, he will make anything just to gain a fight between you.


Finally, Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said if you love someone you should tell him..

إذا أحب أحدكم صاحبه فليأته في منزله ، فليخبره أنه يحبه لله

I'd love to do exactly as the prophet said :) and visit each one's home to tell her that I Really love her.. but I hope that you accept saying it online instead..

يا رب يجمعنا فى الجنة و يثبتنا و يرزقنا الاخلاص..

2 comments:

  1. I ask Allah we be from those whom stand under Allah's throne, and be shaded by it, to be together in Ferdaws along with our families..

    And meet Prophet Mohamed PBUH together , hand in hand :D

    Allahum Ameeen

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