Choose the Medium..

You Remember the word "Medium" on Physics ... Let's refresh our memory together :) .

Transmission medium, any material substance which can propagate waves or energy.

You know when they used to tell us that passing sound or light waves through air medium isn't like passing it through water medium.. and giving us the famous examples about the refraction of spoon on water cup and talking under the water :) ..

Why talking about physics right now ?!!

Don't you think that most of our problems are about Choosing the Right Medium ... because we are so worried about what to pass through the Medium .. you pick the words and pick the person that you will say these words to, but rarely choosing the right way to say it.

It doesn't matter what will we say under the water, the problem is our choice to send the msg by using water as a medium.

People have no problem hearing our Religious, Personal, Social, Political, .... etc. Point of views, but it counts on the way we say it.

Top 3 People Medium Choices:

1. Being Rough.
2. Being Rude.
3. Being Aggressive.

Why people Chose them?

1. Apparently they make you empowered.
2. You put throw all your feelings on others face which sounds like relief (Ham we 2enza7 we 2olna el kelmten el ma7shoren fe zorna).
3. Showing your character :D ...

Can I tell you more about Prophet Muhammad's Medium PBUH ..?

استأذن رهط من اليهود على النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم فقالوا : السام عليك ، فقلت : بل عليكم السام واللعنة ، فقال : ( يا عائشة ، إن الله رفيق يحب الرفق في الأمر كله ) . قلت : أولم تسمع ما قالوا : قال : ( قلت : وعليكم ) .

الراوي: عائشة المحدث: البخاري - المصدر: صحيح البخاري - الصفحة أو الرقم: 6927
خلاصة حكم المحدث: صحيح

Can you imagine that Prophet PBUH cares about choosing the right Medium with Jewish and Asked her for using the right medium which is .. الرفق

ما كان الرفق في شيء إلا زانه ، و لا نزع من شيء إلا شانه

الراوي: عائشة و أنس بن مالك المحدث: الألباني - المصدر: صحيح الجامع - الصفحة أو الرقم: 5654
خلاصة حكم المحدث: صحيح

Make Kindness and decency are your Mediums, you'll find people will like to hear you even if they didn't agree with you .. and maybe later they will or at least will respect your words.

فَبِمَا رَحْمَةٍ مِّنَ اللّهِ لِنتَ لَهُمْ وَلَوْ كُنتَ فَظّاً غَلِيظَ الْقَلْبِ لاَنفَضُّواْ مِنْ حَوْلِكَ فَاعْفُ عَنْهُمْ وَاسْتَغْفِرْ لَهُمْ وَشَاوِرْهُمْ فِي الأَمْرِ فَإِذَا عَزَمْتَ فَتَوَكَّلْ عَلَى اللّهِ إِنَّ اللّهَ يُحِبُّ الْمُتَوَكِّلِينَ ..آل عمران159

اللهم ارزقنا الرفق فى كل امورنا و وفقنا لما تحب و ترضى
و ارزقنا الاخلاص و حسن الخاتمة